The Mean Reds
In Truman Capote's novella, Breakfast at Tiffany's, Holly Golightly has a name for her periodic episodes of depression. Because they are worse than "the Blues," she calls them "The Mean Reds."
No matter how well put together we are, all of us get sunk by something like "The Mean Reds" once in awhile. Here's what works for me:
- First: Give yourself permission to feel and enough time to get over it (even if it's just one weekend at a time). If you don't deal with it now, you'll deal with it later.
Second: Find a comfy place to lay down and spread out
Third: Grab a book, take a nap, or turn on the TV and do whatever impulse grabs you.
Fourth: Do NOT feel guilty for not answering the door, telephone, or for not keeping previous commitments.
Here are a few more ingredients that might help:
And the best remedy of all for feeling down: in the words of my favorite doctor, "Get yourself a dog!"
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